I Didn’t Know What I Signed Up For

“You knew what you signed up for when you married him.” It’s usually some type of attempt “tough love” response when a military spouse is venting about the struggles of being married to someone in the military. There are a lot of things I knew when I said “I do”, but every minute detail of the struggles we would face was not one of them…and I’d say that’s true even in the civilian family world.